THE BLOG
Tips for integrating self-compassion into your daily life

Letting go of limiting beliefs - 3 things that actually work
Letting go of limiting beliefs, or ''reversing'' them, seems like THE solution, but it's not. These 3 things actually work.
/by Shirley
Feeling bad without knowing why? Do this.
Feeling bad without knowing why is your brain's biggest nightmare. This is why & what you can do to support yourself right now.
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Why falling back into old patterns is actually a good thing
Falling back into old patterns is inevitable on the personal development path. These are the 3 common causes AND why it's anything but bad news.
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What is unconditional love? And more importantly: What isn't?
What is unconditional love? Loving with an open heart. Do you know all three components of unconditional love?
/by Shirley
Breaking the cycle of being angry with yourself
Being angry with yourself - it happens to the best of us. Break the cycle with this gentle & grounded exercise.
/by Shirley
No, you DON'T have to love yourself first.
Do you really need to love yourself first before you can love somebody else? Nope. Loving another person is actually a fast track to self-love.
/by Shirley
Why getting rid of your inner critic isn’t working - 3 vital insights
Although getting rid of your inner critic is not a possibility, detaching and liberating yourself from it certainly is & this is how you do it.
/by Shirley
Time Surfing as a tool to support your self-compassion practice
Find out how you can apply Time Surfing to grow your self-connection and create spaciousness in your daily life.
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It will be okay, dear human.
It will be okay. These simple words can lead you to so much inner peace, and sometimes even rainbows. Let me explain.
/by Shirley
Why putting yourself last is harmful to your relationships
Putting yourself last causes disconnection. Here's why this is harmful to your relationships and what you can do about it.
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3 tips on how to stop overthinking (and excessive worrying)
You are not in control of your overthinking, but with these 3 tips you can help yourself soften when your mind goes into overdrive.
/by Shirley
4 tips for dealing with regret
Tips and insights to make dealing with regret - and the accompanying self-blame - a little more easeful and accessible.
/by Shirley